I sometimes have arguments with my adolescent sister because she goes so often out just to sit with friends and I see this, in such a frequence as a flappant waste of time. I must also admit that I spend much time in solitude and thus I am not able to objectively say what is a waste of time, because I do not have the need to socialize. Nevertheless I have the urge to call her behaviour stupid and yet know that it may not be stupid. As I always say, it depends on individual conscience. It is important to show her an alternative, but if I keep myself in a state of thinking about people socializing as stupid, then I hurt myself in the same way as she hurts herself by wasting her time.
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